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If you're trying to stay in shape or maintain a healthy weight, it can be hard to tell which tricks are working for your body and which aren't.

Sure, you battled your chocolate cravings at 11am but then you ended up eating twice as much dessert as usual after dinner. Sometimes, it's better to relax your attitude to food and fitness and just do what feels right.

Here are some health rules it's okay to break every once in a while…

1. No junk food, ever
Denying yourself when you have cravings can often backfire later in the day when you overindulge without thinking. If you have a craving for something sweet or unhealthy and it doesn't pass, don't just block it out! It's better to eat something unhealthy and enjoy it in the moment, rather than overeating later and feeling guilty for it.

2. Only eat salads
Yes, plain salads are a great option if you're trying to eat lightly, but they lack the comfort of heartier foods. Why not swap that boring lettuce for a non-creamy soup, some grilled veg or a wholewheat sandwich? You'll feel fuller and more satisfied without harming your weight loss plan. Adding cooked grains or beans to a salad can also help to make it more appealing, without adding fat or sugar.

3. Exercise every day
Your body needs time to rest! If you're lacking in sleep, allow yourself a lie-in and skip that morning spin class. In the long run it'll be better for your health and fitness levels.

4. Control your portions
"Portion control" seems to be the word of the year for anyone with an interest in clean eating and fitness. But certain non-starchy foods like salad leaves, peppers, celery and cucumber do not need to be strictly controlled. If you find you're getting sick of tiny dinners or feeling unsatisfied, try adding extra amounts of these safe foods to your plate.

5. No eating after 6pm
Your body doesn't automatically store calories as fat if they're consumed at night. If you've stayed late at work or are starving after an evening workout, give your body the fuel it needs. Skipping meals for the sake of not eating after dark will just slow down your metabolism in the long run. Try to keep evening meals healthy – but don't deprive yourself of food!

6. No bread
Yes, white bread is a refined carb that is generally high in calories. But wholegrain breads are packed with fibre and will leave you feeling full without bloating. Carbohydrates are your body's preferred source of energy, so give in to your needs!

7. No fatty foods
Fried and greasy foods should generally be avoided if you're dieting – but their high fat content isn't the only reason they're bad. Certain foods contain high levels of healthy fats which your body actually needs to help absorb nutrients. Nuts, seeds, olive oil and avocado might be high in fat on paper, but they're better than a snack box from the chipper any day!

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Beauty buffs, you have been told!

Smashbox has a big surprise in store for its lucky customers this coming Friday.

To celebrate #FoundationFriday, the poplar makeup line is giving away full-size bottles of foundation, absolutely free!

Yes, you read that correctly.

On Friday, October 31st 2014, Smashbox will be giving away free bottles of its best-selling Studio Skin 15 Hour Wear Hydrating Foundation SPF 10 to the first 20 customers who show up at any of their counters across Ireland and the UK.

All you need to do to claim this amazing free gift is print off the Smashbox Facebook Event page, or show it on your Smartphone, and make sure you’re one of the first 20 in the queue.

The lucky 20 will be gifted with a foundation perfectly matching their own skin tone, keeping them flawless and shine-free for up to 15 hours.

Sounds like a pretty epic way to kick off the weekend!

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Have you ever loved someone so much you paid for their vom over the internet?

We didn’t think so…

A few weeks ago, One Direction star Harry Styles puked on the side of the road in America and fans erected a shrine at the spot. That’s fair enough, but what happened next will turn your stomach…

Bandmate, Liam Payne then told BBC Radio’s Scott Mills that he actually saw Harry’s sick being sold on eBay.

His actual sick. For sale. On eBay.

Liam said: “Woah I saw that thing [the eBay post], it’s weird.”

Harry himself said that the whole incident – shrine and all – is a little alarming: “It’s worrying that this is the world we live in.”

The singer also said that he was not sick due to alcohol, but hiking: “I’d been on a hike. I’d been on a very long hike.”

A very long hike back from the pub was it, Harry? You can tell us… 

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'The Style Show' delivers your daily dose of fabulous fashion! In today's segment, "Fashion Flashback" our reporter Emma Power takes a look back at the style evolution of Lindsay Lohan. Watch the video above to re-live her best (and worst!) fashion moments.

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Rejection can be hard for many people to take. No actually, everyone. Whether it be a job interview you thought you nailed, a friend who turned away, or the love of your life turning you down, we've all been there. 

Here are the five stages of dealing with rejection:

1. Denial
This is the stage where you bury your head in the sand and pretend 'the incident' never happened. 

2. Anger
At your ex, the person who turned you down, the universe, yourself. Everyone is out to get you, nothing is working out for you. You feel hard done by and will not let anything pass. Try to avoid emailing/texting/calling whoever it is you hate right now. It's a bad idea, this stage will pass. 

3. Bargaining
Reverting back to denial, you still can’t accept that there’s nothing you can do to change their mind. You promise to change, to be a better person, you email the college and tell them you’ll take up extra classes or work for free on campus, you ask for a second interview, you promise that guy you'll change. 

4. Depression
Usually the stage where you spend days in bed, not getting washed or dressed. Feeling hopeless and either overeating or under-eating. Friends, housemates and family don’t know what to do because you are feeling so hopeless. Nothing they can say will penetrate the depressive cloud that has formed all around you. You feel like you will never be accepted anywhere by anyone. You see yourself as a failure. You still blame everyone else but now you’re blaming yourself too. You have no energy to be angry anymore. You’re done with that, all you feel is sad and alone.

5. Acceptance
Finally, you come to terms with everything. This can happen suddenly, or gradually, bit by bit. It doesn’t mean that you’re going to be jumping around thinking life is great but you’ll be able to deal and move on. You’ll get into another college, you’ll be in another relationship and you’ll be attracted to another person. You recognize that you totally over-reacted, but you're human and everyone deals with it. Hopefully you won’t go through it again but now that you have, you might handle it better next time. Everything is going to be okay. Okay?

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Let's face it, if you haven't planned your Halloween costume by now, you're either staying in with Netflix tomorrow night or it's going to be an epic, off-the-cuff outfit put together in an hour.

Assuming it's the latter, we are here to help!

We've already covered pop culture costumes, couples costumes and celebs who went all out, but now we have a few epic ideas for those of you who are looking forward to a great night out but really have no will whatsoever to put the time and effort in.

Here we go…

1. Costume Not Found
Possibly THE simplest costume in the world, and it's unisex too. Plus, people will think you're a tech whizz when really your only computer skills involve stalking celebs on Instagram.

2. An emoji
So many expressive options! The masks below are available online, but with a pack of markers and some card you could just go all Art Attack and make your own. We vote for the poo emoji. It speaks volumes.

3. A retro housewife
All you need for this is some cat-eye glasses, anything with cherry print and a cute apron. Hello, Betty Draper.

4. A child of the Noughties
Take Julia Stiles as your inspiration and you'll have this costume ready in no time. Baggy pants, a crop top or anything with beading, and of course the essential two strands of hair hanging down from your ponytail. Girl power!

5. Zombify last year's costume
Zombie Red Riding Hood, Zombie Pirate, Zombie Minnie Mouse… the choices are endless.

6. A ceiling fan
Punny AND cute. Some pom poms, a skirt, a t-shirt and a permanent market are the only tools required for this. Now go and party!

7. A nerd
Bonus points if you already have the glasses! Be sure to push them up the bridge of your nose all night for extra poindexter-ness.

8. Fifty Shades of Grey
A cheeky trip to Woodies after work and you'll be all set. Even Jamie Dornan would be jealous!

9. FaceBook
As modelled by John Krasinski… we're guessing Emily Blunt wasn't attracted to him for his costume-making skills!

10. A party animal
A tiger, a zebra, a cat… if anyone asks what you are just start dancing and making animal noises. They'll get the picture. 

 

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We reckon this groom really regrets deciding to pick up his new wife and run with her…

Because of course he fell, and it looked painful too!

Thankfully, the bride seems to be a good sport and gets back in the saddle (so to speak). 

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Dating apps are weird. I don’t care how normalised they have become in the life of the average single twenty-something, there’s still something about a lot of them that rubs me up the wrong way – especially after a recent experience.

I should say at this point that my interaction on these apps is limited, and for that I am grateful. I’ve been going out with a really great guy for nearly three years (smug? Moi?), and I am convinced (convinced!) that had Tinder been operational while I was still single, all hell would have broken loose.

Not that it hasn’t already done so among my friends. One of the girls Googled a guy she was chatting to only to find he was up in court, another had the L-word used on her a week in, and one lad I know has his profile picture used for catfishing purposes on Tinder. The list goes on – it's bleak.

Dating has always been a bit of a minefield, but stuff like Tinder definitely pushes new boundaries – and as I found out, so does Cuddlr. My experience with Cuddlr, billed by its creators as a ‘location-based social-meeting app for cuddling,’ all started out as a bit of innocent fun. Isn’t that what they all say? Famous last words…

Last month after hearing about it, myself and a few colleagues downloaded it at lunch one day for the fun of it, simply because we could not believe that something this ridiculous actually existed. The app itself has a number of glitches and is pretty weird; but still, we sent each other and some strangers cuddle requests, had a good laugh and then went back to work. I totally forgot I even had the app until later that evening, when this notification popped up.

Because of the aforementioned glitchiness, I couldn’t even see who it was from.

I was instantly terrified, but I should have known – it’s location-based, so whoever was messaging me was able to see where my office is. I checked in with some of my colleagues to see if it was any of them, messing – it wasn’t.  I was scared. Cuddlr was deleted straight away, lesson learned. Don’t use Cuddlr unless you’re serious about the whole stranger hook-up element.

Each to his own, but it’s experiences like these that make me totally miss the days when socialising online was limited to the likes of Habbo Hotel and Neopets. I still prefer meeting people the good old-fashioned way – nice and awkward, in person, sometimes with a bit of Dutch courage.

Of course, I’m open to correction; there is no right or wrong here, only experiences. Surely there are happy couples out there who met on Tinder? Has a cuddle courtesy of Cuddlr helped you get through the day?! Let us know!

Oh, and did you really think I was going to tell you all about the time I used 3nder – the threesome hookup app? Nah. I’ll leave that to the more adventurous…

Deirdre Foley is a history grad, sceptic, wearer of red lipstick and self-confessed 'beauty maniac'. She is also the co-founder of fabulous Irish beauty blog, Viva Adonis.

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It looks like this Gossip Girl romance is back on!

Yes, Kelly Rutherford and Matthew Settle look like they may be officially an item again!

Following the breakdown of their respective marriages, by 2012 the couple were said to be in a relationship and were spotted kissing.

However, things went quiet from then on…until now that is.

Over the past two weeks Kelly and Matthew have been sharing cute photos of themselves together on their Instagram accounts – Kelly’s with a little heart as a caption.We really hope these two are together and not just (very) good friends as they are officially the cutest!

Kelly could use some good news after a judge sent her children to live with their father in France back in August. 

The mum-of-two is reported to have filed an appeal against the ruling, deeming the decision "unconstitutional": "The children have a fundamental right to reside in their own country and the loss of fundamental rights even for a brief period is irreparable."

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Maybe you’ve gone through it yourself, or maybe a friend or relative has, but sometimes a relationship ends, not for any huge dramatic reason, not with screaming matches and shouting, but simply because things have fizzled out.

In many ways ending a relationship mutually after the spark has gone out is far more difficult than if things had finished with a bang. You still consider your ex as your best friend, you still crave the comfort that comes from being with them, but suddenly they’re not around any longer.

There’s no anger or hatred, making it even harder to comprehend why things are over. Telling yourself again and again that “it’s for the best” sounds great on paper but it doesn’t help with the loneliness or the uncertainty.

So how can you know when a relationship is repairable and when it’s best to end things? It’s inevitable that in a long term relationship you’ll both become more comfortable and relaxed with each other – but when does it become something to be concerned about?

Certain signs – though they might not signal the end of a relationship – are alarm bells that things might not be quite right. One big warning sign is a lack of physical attraction. Over time we get used to our partner, their traits and looks, but we should still be able to recognise what it was they drew us to them in the first place – that little flicker of attraction that set things off.

Another indicator that should prompt you to take a step back and think about where your relationship is going is a lack of meaningful communication and interaction. The stresses and chores of everyday life can lead our conversations to become mundane and practical, which is of course a fact of any long-term relationship. But do you still feel comfortable bringing up deeper issues with your partner – how you’re feeling, what’s upsetting you, what makes you happy? If you don’t consider your other half as someone you can open up to any longer, maybe it’s a sign that certain elements of your relationship are faltering.

Of course, every couple has their ups and downs and goes through phases of not being as passionate or engaged as they once were. Why not take the time to think about what has changed between you, and focus on possible ways of reigniting that lost spark? Something as simple as dressing up and going out for dinner instead of getting a takeaway in front of the TV can be enough to make the two of you realise just how good you are together.

There will be difficult moments in every relationship. The key is knowing when something is worth fighting for or when it’s best to move on. That’s easier said than done in many cases, but remember that you’re the one in charge of your own happiness – nobody else.

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He seems perfect – but you're worried he might be a bit of a troublemaker. Well, mostly your friends are trying to convince you he is. 

Here are the signs they could well be right…

1. He contacts you on his terms
He will only call you when it suits him and acts angry when you confront him about it. 

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2. He cold-shoulders you in public
He's all about you when it's just the two of you, but when you meet him on a night out with the girls he barely acknowledges you. Not on. 

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3. He’s a cheat
It’s not worth it. If he has a track record and you find yourself recognising every sign so far then stop trying to delude yourself with the idea of being the girl to change him. Sure you could be the one, but if he gives you an inkling you're not, then don't put yourself through that. We've all been there and it's never fun. 

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4. He’s a sweet-talker
Most guys say the wrong thing all of the time (bless). But this guy is the biggest charmer you've ever come across, to the point where it's actually a bit much. 

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5. His friends warn you
Bromances are taking very seriously – so if one of his friends warns you he will hurt you, you should listen. 

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It was only yesterday we wrote about Ashton’s sweet comments about life with fiancée, Mila Kunis and their new baby daughter, Wyatt Isabelle.

Now, allegations have been made against the actor saying that he cheated on Mila back in 2012.

Ashton and Mila were speculated to be dating in April of that year, but their relationship was not confirmed until July.

Make-up artist, Linn Massinger is now alleging that she had relations with the actor in June of that same summer, leading many to speculate that he may have cheated on Mila.

However, if the couple didn't get together until that July (fingers crossed) then this is all one big confusing misunderstanding!

Ashton split from his ex-wife Demi Moore in 2011, weeks after he was accused of cheating on her on the weekend of their six year anniversary.

We really hope this rumour isn’t true and what an awful time for something like this to be brought to light, weeks after the couple welcome their first child into the world.

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