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From drafting her first book at home in her parents' spare room to being flown to New York to discuss her first film deal, it’s certainly been four years of extremes for Cork native Louise O’Neill.

After over a year working for ELLE magazine in the US, O’Neill moved home in September 2011 with a plan – to write her first novel. Just over a year later, she had a full first draft of Only Ever Yours under her belt, which went on to win her the Newcomer Of The Year Award at the Irish Book Awards in 2014.

Pausing during our interview to hug her mum goodbye (“She’s off to Thailand!”) it’s clear O’Neill still has strong roots at home in West Cork. But over the last twelve months her life has spiralled in a million different directions – most notably last September, when US film/TV studio Killer Content bought the rights to Only Ever Yours.

"They flew me first class to New York and threw me a party on a yacht with Eva Longoria. It was all very surreal," she recalls to SHEmazing! from her family home in Clonakilty, where she’s spending the night before travelling back to Dublin for a panel discussion at the Mountains to Sea Book Festival. 

"I could never have anticipated it when I first started writing. I was just thinking of the next thousand words."

While that undeniably huge level of success might be enough to keep some young authors going, O’Neill barely stopped for a minute before penning her second – and equally lauded – book, Asking For It, which threw up a whole new set of "firsts" for her.

Chief among those is the fact that she’s become something of an unintentional activist for consent and sexual violence issues in Ireland, largely due to the subject matter of Asking For It.

The story of a Leaving Cert student who has her life ripped apart after explicit images of her end up online has struck a chord with Irish readers, not just in the Young Adult sphere but everywhere else, too.

"Even early on, when I was researching the book, I realised that rape and consent were much bigger issues in Ireland than I had ever known," she recalls.

"Women were coming to me and telling stories, saying things like ‘Oh, I had an unpleasant sexual experience,’ or ‘I was drunk, I said I didn’t want to have sex but we did’… Things that made me think, ‘That sounds like the definition of rape to me.’"

And even now, O’Neill is still asked to advise, help or just to be a listening ear to countless readers.

"I get emails every single day from women sharing their experiences – survivors or people going through things right now that Asking For It has helped them to understand," she says.

"It’s just been this ripple effect from where I first started, at home in my parents' spare room in my PJs, on the laptop.

"It’s humbling and gratifying but it’s also terrifying… The main thing I try to do is to listen and to be there."

Despite the ever-blurring divide between, as she puts it, "artist and activist," O’Neill is still on track with her third book, which she hopes to have finished by early next year.

"I do feel off-kilter at the moment, but I have a blanket ban from June [2016] to January [2017], and that’s when I’ll stay at home and really get into the writing. I need that stability and normality."

While O’Neill says she’s too "superstitious" to discuss the plot of her third novel just yet, she’s already started speaking to women and crafting "the voice of my main character."

For now though, it’s back on the road – first to UCC later in the afternoon for a creative writing workshop, and onward to Dublin tomorrow.

"It never stops," she laughs. "But it’s great. It’s brilliant."

Louise O’Neill will be discussing Asking For It at Opsh’s Book Club next Monday, March 14 at The Button Factory, Dublin 2.

She’ll be joined by journalists Louise Bruton and Jeanne Sutton; and blogger Rosie Connolly.

Tickets for the event start at €15, with €5 of each ticket redeemable on Opsh.com. Dubray Books are also offering 25% off Asking For It for ticketholders ahead of the event – simply use the code OPSH at checkout.

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Maria Sharapova faces a lengthy ban from professional tennis after she failed a drug test ahead of playing the Australian Open in January and it seems that fellow player Andy Murray has no sympathy for her. 

The 28-year-old Russian sports star tested positive for the drug meldonium, a substance she has been taking for over ten years for alleged health reasons. 

Meldonium was put on the official list of banned substances on January 1 and the tennis champion claimed she was oblivious to the recent changes in doping protocols. 

While many fans and fellow tennis players have come out in support of the star, others find her explanation for taking the drug implausible, including Scottish player Andy Murray. 

"It’s not up to me to decide the punishment, but if you’re taking performance enhancing drugs and you fail a drugs test, you have to get suspended," he said at an Indian Wells Masters event this week. 

"I think taking a prescription drug that you don’t necessarily need, but just because it’s legal, that’s wrong, clearly. That’s wrong.

"If you’re taking a prescription drug and you’re not using it for what that drug was meant for, then you don’t need it, so you’re just using it for the performance enhancing benefits that drug is giving you. And I don’t think that that’s right."

The 28-year-old also found it hard to believe that Maria and no one on her team had made sure that what she was taking was legal. 

"Some people put a lot of trust in the team around them so it’s hard to say what’s the right thing for everyone, but it’s almost kind of part of her job to know everything that’s going into her body and not just rely on what a doctor is saying or a physio is saying.

"You check yourself to make sure, double check to make sure, that anything that’s going into your body is safe."

Maria spoke for the first time since the announcement yesterday and thanked her fans for their support. 

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A female judge is facing a campaign to be suspended following an 'offensive' line of questioning towards a rape victim when she tried to report the incident. 

The woman, who is also five months pregnant, had turned to police to report her partner who she claimed was "repeatedly abusing her both sexually and physically."

When the woman tried to tell her account of being sexually assaulted at her local police station, the magistrate is believed to have interrupted the story by asking humiliating questions. 

The judge is said to have asked the woman if she had closed "her legs and all [her] female organs" among other questionable enquiries.  

Judge Maria del Carmen Molina Mansilla is now facing a campaign calling for her suspension spearheaded by the Clara Camoamor Association, a group that campaigns on behalf of victims of sexual crime. 

"She showed obvious disbelief of the testimony of the victim, questioned her without allowing her to answer, asking leading and offensive questions," said a spokesperson for the group. 

The group is also claiming that Maria has shown similar attitudes towards other victims and they had received similar complaints about the judge in the past. 

"Such questions are not only unnecessary to the investigation but are completely offensive and violate the dignity of the victim.

"Unfortunately this is not an isolated act but such behaviour [by this judge] is habitual and continuous." 

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Much as we love chocolate, we can’t help but feeling about five years old as we rip the wrapping off our old-school Easter egg every year.

If your taste in treats has graduated to something a little more sophisticated by this stage, you’re going to want to hear about Butlers Chocolates’ newest offerings.

The Irish chocolatiers have launched a range of three ultra-decadent Easter eggs, each with five signature Butlers truffles in a keepsake powder-puff style box.

Butlers Milk Chocolate Egg with Milk Chocolate Flake Truffles, €15

Butlers Dark Chocolate Egg with 70% Gold Dusted Truffles, €15

Butlers White Chocolate Egg with Pink Marc de Champagne Truffles, €15

Rather than scoffing the whole lot in one go, these luxury eggs are definitely for savouring (well, unless you really can’t resist).

We’ve also been eyeing up these mini-eggs, each made from a different variety of Butlers chocolate, including 70% dark, mixed berry, and honeycomb crisp.

Butlers 3 Chocolate Egg Box, €10

Alternatively, if you’re looking for something a bit non-traditional this year how about a cocktail-inspired box of choccies?

Whether you are a Gin Martini or Raspberry Cosmo kinda gal, this box of sweet treats proves that Easter is not just for the kids.

Butlers The Cocktail Menu, €15

Of course, if it’s a taste of childhood nostalgia you’re really after this Easter, Butlers have you covered on that front too.

Butlers Milk or White Chocolate Rabbit, €9.95 each

Is there anything that can’t be made better by the addition of a chocolate bunny? We think not.

To add to the Easter fun, if you’re heading along to the Butlers Chocolate Experience in Dublin between March 18 and March 26, the Easter Bunny will be on hand to meet and greet visitors and accompany participants on a fun filled Easter Egg Hunt after each tour. Booking details here.

Time to start hinting heavily to your nearest and dearest.

Butlers Chocolate Easter range is available from selected retail outlets nationwide, any one of the 18 Butlers Chocolate Cafés in Dublin, Cork, Galway or Limerick and online.

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Beyoncé, Lea Michele, J. Lo and even our own Roz Purcell are just some of the stars who've shunned meat and dairy to keep themselves fighting fit.

While in theory a vegan diet sounds relatively simple, in practice it can be a little more complicated – all that recipe planning, for one. 

Blogger Amy Mulvaney gave veganism a go for a month to see if it was for her or not, and here's how she fared…

I’m a meat-eater, a chocolate lover and a cheese fiend. So when I told people that I was going vegan for a full month, the reaction was pretty much the same: “Are you crazy? But what are you going to eat?”

But after doing a bit of research on veganism and seeing the effects it can have on your body and health, I had already decided that it was worth a try, despite being just a little terrified.

One month of nut butter, almond milk and tofu on, here’s what I learned

1. Preparation is key
With so many foods eliminated from my diet, I knew that the only way I would survive was if I planned things out properly. I stocked up on plenty of fruit and vegetables, rice and pasta, and set out all of my meals from books like Deliciously Ella Every Day.

2. It’s not as expensive as you might think
Aside from picking up pricier products like miso paste and nutritional yeast, after the first week my food shopping wasn’t expensive and was pretty minimal. I didn’t waste as much food as I usually would, and everything in the fridge was eaten.

3. Google is your best friend
In fear of eating something that wasn’t vegan, I Googled everything before it crossed my lips. You’d be surprised at which foods are not vegan, including certain breads, pastas and treats like crisps.

4. Eating vegan doesn’t have to be boring (and it’s kinda easy)
I found it surprisingly easy to omit meat and dairy from my dinners, and really enjoyed making new dishes. Vegan stir fries, veggie burgers and tomato pasta are dishes that I’ll definitely keep eating, even though the month is over. Obviously some meals take longer than others, but overall I made sure that whatever I was making didn’t take longer than 20 minutes.

5. I didn’t lose weight or have heaps of energy
Being totally honest, I didn’t experience the boundless energy and lift in my mood that a lot of people do when they go vegan. My mood and energy stayed pretty much the same, as did my weight.

6. People don’t react too well when they hear you’re vegan
Even though I was only vegan for the month, a lot of people couldn’t help but hide their reaction to my new lifestyle. They made it pretty clear that they thought it must be “terrible” to live that way, before scoffing when I told them it wasn’t that bad.

7. Eating out wasn’t tortuous… honestly
Whenever I was eating out throughout the month, I made sure I looked at the restaurant’s menu online and had a look at what I could eat. Most places were happy to cater to what I needed, and the food I ate was delicious. Saying that, not many cafes care if you’re vegan or lactose-intolerant, and don’t stock soy or almond milk, which is very annoying at 9am on a Saturday when you desperately need a coffee.

8. Just because it’s vegan doesn’t mean it’s healthy
Most refined sugar is vegan, as are many biscuits and sweets like Oreos and Hob Nobs. So while it might seem like anything that’s vegan is healthy, that’s really not the case.

9. Eating enough is difficult
I wanted to make sure that I was eating enough of the right foods throughout the month, as some vitamins and minerals don’t readily exist in a vegan diet. I had to make sure I ate consistently throughout the day and didn’t leave myself hungry and low in energy.

10. Overall, it was a positive move, which I might even continue. Maybe.
As I said, I wasn’t even vegetarian before I went vegan, so this was a pretty big change for me. Through a lot of preparation and planning (I carried nuts everywhere), I found that I had fewer moments of despair and cravings than I thought.

At the start of the month, I didn’t know what to expect. Would I hate it? Would I want to stay vegan for life? Now I’m at the end, I’m still not sure where I stand.  It was interesting in theory, but in reality I found the whole thing a bit tedious – constantly checking the back of packets for ingredients and not being able to be spontaneous with eating out can get tiring.

I now know, however, that meat, dairy and animal products do not have to form part of every meal I to eat. I’ve really enjoyed trying new foods, stepping outside of my comfort zone and fuelling my body with wholesome and nutritious food. While being vegan was something I really enjoyed doing for the month, I don’t think I could stick to the label of being vegan for life.

I’d be pretty happy, though, to say that I’m a part-time vegan. Now that’s something I can stick to.

Amy Mulvaney blogs about all things lifestyle, beauty and fashion over on What She Does Now.

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Tut tut, Charlotte. 

Our favourite reality star Charlotte Crosby has just been handed down her second driving ban after another case of drunk-driving led her back to court. 

The Geordie Shore star, who was given an 18 month ban in 2012 for a similar incident, was caught driving her vehicle after getting off a train from London to Newcastle. 

The Celebrity Big Brother winner claimed that she had planned on getting a taxi but decided to drive to short distance from the train station to her hotel, despite having had drinks on the train. 

After being caught driving recklessly, two police officers discovered the 25-year-old was at least double the legal limit after a breathalyser test. 

The court has handed down a three-year driving ban for the recent infraction and the star must also shell out just under €1500 in fines. 

While the second ban certainly doesn't do great things for her public persona, the law-breaking may actually have larger implications for the star's career. 

According to Yahoo!, the star is no longer permitted to apply for a work visa for the States dashing Char's dreams of breaking America. 

Nick Freeman, Charlotte's attorney, commented after the case that the star had been close to landing a TV slot stateside but noted that: "that will not now happen as she will not get a visa."

He also added that the star days: “she accepts that she is the author of her misfortune” and added that she was "bitterly ashamed, contrite and embarrassed" by the incident. 

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You're favourite set of Irish twins will be storming Limerick city as they get set to head Limerick's St. Patrick's festivities on March 17. 

The hyperactive duo, who found fame on the X Factor, were very excited to accept an invitation from Limerick's city and county council to take part in the annual parade. 

"Limerick is a beautiful city, which is full of history and I hope it becomes the European Capital of Culture in 2020," said Edward to the Mirror. 

"I enjoy visiting Limerick because we can reconnect with our relatives and our heritage. It is an exciting, vibrant city with lots to see and do."

The pair actually have family ties to the county as their father hails from the city and played hurling with GAA club Na Piarsaigh. Their grandfather also played a large role in GAA in the area. 

The parade is being coordinated by the local council and no expense is being spared as the city hopes it will help them in their bid to become the European Capital of Culture in 2020. 

An estimated 80,000 people are expected to line the streets of the city to enjoy the parade on the day and we reckon they can up their guesstimate with the addition of these two. 

Bring on Thursday. 

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Would you date a stranger – who happened to be a much older man – in secret, if it meant you'd have an endless supply of disposable income, new clothes and all the cosmetics your heart desired?

While for some this might be an immediate no-no, for other women the prospect is quite appealing indeed. So much so, in fact, that the website SeekingArrangement.com has seen a 14% increase in both male and female Irish users since 2014.

Relationships initiated on the website generally involve exchanging money, travel and gifts for "companionship." In some instances sex comes as part of that package. The process is called “sugaring”.

The average Irish user of the service is a typical "Sugar Daddy", in his early forties, based in Dublin and earning in excess of €250,000.

As for the women, TV3's Ireland AM spoke to two of Ireland's 23,000 "Sugar Babies", both college-age women who have used the service as a way to make some extra cash and keep themselves in a glamourous lifestyle.

One such woman, Natasha, a 19-year-old with two part-time sugar daddies and one full-time one, explained the arrangement that she has going on.

"I see him twice a month," she said of one of the relationships. 

"Once we either go for a drink or we have dinner, and the second date we have is a shopping date where I pick out what I like and he buys it for me… I get an allowance as well."

Siobhán [name changed], a 20-year-old Irish college student, said she had been treated to new Louboutin heels, clothes and make-up on her first date with a sugar daddy based in the UK.

"He’s giving me €500 a month," she said, adding that her sugar daddy has flown her to the UK ten times during the relationship.

"We go for dinner, go for drinks and then just spend the night together. If I’m looking for new clothes for college or a night out with the girls, or I need to go on holidays with the girls, he’ll give me that aswell."

As for sex, Siobhán said it is part of the arrangement and that it was discussed before the pair met in person.

"With him, we discussed it [sex] before I went over [to the UK], to see if we were interested in each other as I was going to stay the night with him in his house anyway.

"We had discussed it before I went over. Sex was fine. It was no problem."

Natasha adds that she enjoys the sugar baby lifestyle as it gives her an element of control in her life.

"It makes me feel glamorous, it makes me feel sexy, it makes me feel powerful and it makes me feel like I’m in charge of my life and makes me have that power.”

Watch the full interview, which aired on Ireland AM today, here:

 

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Can you believe it's been nineteen years since Buffy the Vampire Slayer hit our screens full force for it's first season debut. 

Our favourite heroine of all things creepy, Buffy is a total legend and even Sarah Michelle Gellar couldn't help but share a throwback snap for the day that's in it. 

 

For nostalgic purposes and to celebrate the birthday of one of our favourite shows of all time, we're going to check out exactly what the cast are up to now: 

Sarah Michelle Gellar 

Playing a kick-ass heroine on a popular US show only did good things for Sarah who continues to work as an actress. 

Most notably, she is making a return to our screens in the upcoming television reboot of Cruel Intentions where she will reprise her role as the dastardly Kathryn Merteuil. 

She's still married to that ultimate 90s heartthrob Freddie Prinze Jr  and the couple have two kids together. 

David Boreanaz 

David went on to reprise his role as the sexy vampire Angel with his own spin-off show that aired until 2004. 

The actor saw continued success in TV after he landed the lead role in crime drama, Bones. 

David married former Playboy model Jaime Bergman in 2001 and the couple have one son together.

However, it was not all plain sailing as the pair garnered a lot of media attention after it was revealed that the actor had an affair and explicit texts were leaked to the press. 

They managed to work through it though and are still together. 

Alyson Hannigan 

Alyson has had a very successful career as an actress ever since her turn as Buffy's BFF Willow. 

The actress played a lead role in the American Pie franchise and recently returned to the screen with a big part in popular sitcom How I Met your Mother. 

She also met her husband, Alexis Denisof, on the set of the show whom she married in 2003. Alex played a smaller part as the watcher Wesley and the pair have two children together. 

Nicholas Brendon

Nicholas has not done much acting since his role as geeky sidekick Xander Harris on the show. 

The actor has battled a troubled personal life and has been arrested six time for offences such as battery (of his then girlfriend) and for being drunk and disorderly. 

He has recently been assigned to take drug and alcohol counselling for a year by the courts. 

Charisma Carpenter 

Charisma played everyone's fave spoilt little rich girl Cordelia and went on to co-star as the same character alongside David Boreanaz in the show Angel. 

She went on to have minor roles in television and has one child with her now-divorced husband. 

Anthony Head 

Anthony may have departed from his role as Giles in the sixth season of the series but his acting gigs certainly did not dry up after he moved back to London to be closer to his family. 

The British actor went on to star in numerous successful UK TV shows including Manchild, Silent Witness, Spooks and Little Britain. 

Seth Green 

Seth  played cool kid Oz in the series and went on to find success in many other acting roles. 

He has also found success as a writer, director and producer most notably for his work on Emmy awarding-winning animated series Robot Chicken. 

He also voices Chris Griffen on Family Guy. 

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We know Rebel Wilson for being hilarious, but the actress seemed to have got a bit of a fright on a recent night out. 

The Pitch Perfect star took to Twitter to say that she reckons her drink was spiked while out in a nightclub in LA  earlier this week. 

According to Rebel, she only went out for one quick drink but left after she felt like something wasn't quite right. 

"Hey guys, but especially to all the girls out there, please be super careful about what you drink when out at clubs and bars at night," read the first in a series of tweets about the incident. 

"I had one drink last night at a trendy club which I believe may have been spiked with something. I felt super tired and disoriented

"Lucky for me, I only drank 1/3 of the drink and realised something wasn't quite right in time to get home before it really hit me."

"I got home safely but woke up this morning feeling like I'd been hit by a truck.

The 36-year-old took the opportunity to warn her fans to be careful with drinks when out on the town. 

"I never thought that would happen to me, but if it does please act as soon as you feel something strange and get yourself to safety."

Just last week, Rebel debuted a pretty shocking new hair colour that we are still really divided on as she gears up to begin filming for Pitch Perfect 3. 

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First MAC, now H&M… Caitlyn Jenner looks set to follow in the Kardashian-Jenner sisters' modelling footsteps.

The transgender activist and former Olympian has just been announced as the new face of H&M Sport, and if the first behind-the-scenes snap is anything to go by, it'll be a killer campaign.

Caitlyn took to Instagram last night to share the first photo, which shows her sitting on a workout bench in an all-black gymwear ensemble.

"Backstage with @hm. Can't wait to show you more of this inspiring and amazing campaign!" she wrote.

H&M shared the same image via its official Instagram account, praising the "strong and beautiful" Caitlyn, and promising more pictures "later."

Just weeks ago, MAC confirmed a partnership with Caitlyn for a new lipstick to be released next month, sharing a seriously sultry first campaign shot of Caitlyn being preened by her glam squad while wearing a gold sequinned gown.

The rosy pink lipstick, called Finally Free, is a charity initiative by MAC, with 100% of proceeds from sales going to the MAC AIDS Fund Transgender Initiative to further its work in support of transgender communities.

Kendall Jenner better watch her back!

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Madonna has been having a tough couple of months. 

Not only is she currently on the road for her Rebel Heart tour but she is also embroiled in a custody battle with her ex-husband over her 15-year-old son Rocco. 

Rocco left the States to live with Guy and his family in December of last year and has not seen his popstar mother since. 

Guy and Rocco both appeared at a hearing in London this week over the dispute with Madonna's rep apologising for her absence. 

The 57-year-old star was actually in Australia performing to a Melbourne crowd but reports suggested that the show started hours late. 

Fans worried for the star as she took the stage in a clown costume and spoke openly about her family issues to the audience. 

"Oh there's no end to the mistakes I've made," said the singer onstage according to the Sun. 

"Anyway everybody knows the saga of me and my son Rocco. It's not a fun story to tell or think about.

"I probably could have enjoyed myself a little bit more on this tour if he hadn't disappeared so suddenly and also if I knew when I would see him again."

The star then sang a song dedicated to her son with his image displayed on a large screen behind her. 

She also admitted to having a few drinks that evening with audience members taking to Twitter to speculate that the singer was drunk. 

"One thing I’m going to do here tonight that I’ve never done before when singing is drink.

"I’m not supposed to be asking for alcohol right now but, Jesus Christ, get me some drink."

We can't imagine any of this will bode well for her case which she is currently trying to have heard solely in the States rather than in London. 

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