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Cardi B's ex-husband Offset is desperately trying to get his wife back, after posting an emotional message to Instagram apologising for his wrongs.

The Migos rapper claims that his 'one birthday wish' is to win Cardi B back and put the cheating scandal behind them.

The couple announced their sudden split earlier this month, after it emerged that Offset was allegedly seeing a woman named Summer Bunni behind Cardi's back.


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Offset addressed the 'I Like It' rapper directly, saying;

"We're going through a lot of things right now, a lot of things in the media. I want to apologise to you Cardi. I embarrassed you. I made you go crazy."

He confessed to his shenanigans, appearing visibly emotional during the video;

"I was partaking in activity that I shouldn't have been partaking in, and I apologise. You know what I'm saying?" 

"For breaking your heart, for breaking our promise, for breaking God's promise and being a selfish, messed up husband."


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He continued, "I'm trying to be a better person. I want to get this off my shoulders. I want to get this off my back. I apologise to you Cardi. I love you."

He then spoke about the former couple's five-month-old little girl, saying; "Kulture, I want to spend Christmas with you."

"I want to be able to spend the rest of my life with you," he then said to Cardi. 


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"I apologise. I am sorry for what I have done to you. I didn't f*ck that girl, but I was entertaining her, you know what I'm saying? I apologise, and I love you, and I hope you forgive me."

"My birthday wish is just to have you back."

Cardi has yet to address the apology video, but is reportedly torn whether to forgive her former lover or move on.

Would you be able to trust him again though? Probs not.



Being cheated on is awful, but life isn’t always black and white, and it would be unfair to brand everyone who cheats as a bad person. If you are the one who cheated, you may be looking for a second chance, but can a relationship really go back to what it was after you’ve broken the trust?

Well, it depends on the circumstances, and how forgiving your partner is. However, if he or she does decide to give you a second chance, here are some tips on how to rebuild your relationship:

  • Own up to what you did and don’t make excuses. It doesn’t matter how drunk you were. Making excuses only says to your partner that you weren’t in control, and that this could happen again.
  • Cancel all communication with the person you cheated with. It doesn’t matter if you were friends beforehand and it was just a drunken mistake – you can’t expect your partner to be ok with you hanging out with this person again.
  • Accept that they’re going to be less trusting than before, so if you say you’ll be back at 10pm, be back at 10pm. And while they can’t ban you from going out without them ever again, you have to accept that this is probably going to be an issue. Try to come up with a way of easing their worries when you go out, whether by texting to let them know where you are and who you’re with, or from refraining from nights out with people who may be a threat.
  • Be totally honest – about everything. Even if they catch you out telling what you think is a white lie, they may feel like they can’t trust you at all. And when they ask for all the details on how you ended up with the other person, you have to give them the honest answers. If they find out you were lying further down the line, you may have blown your chances for good.
  • Be patient. It’s going to take time to rebuild the trust and your partner will need you to be around a lot. You may get fed up of answering the same questions about what happened over and over, or who you’re going out with, but if they need to ask, you need to answer without getting mad. 


Today is the official Kiss and Make Up Day, so whether you've had a fight with your boyfriend, or your friend, or even your mam, it's time to bury the hatchet. And here's why:

Life is too short
Is what you're fighting about really important in the grand scheme of things? If it's not, then it's time to let go of the grudge. In five years time you probably won't even remember what the fight was about, so you may as well forget about it and make the most of the time you have with that person!

It shows how strong you really are
In the words of Ghandi: "The weak can never forgive. Forgiveness is the attribute of the strong." Forgiving someone when they've really hurt you isn't easy to do, but being able to overcome that hurt and forgive shows true strength of character.

It's good for YOU
The act of forgiveness is as good for you as it is for the person you're forgiving. Carrying around anger isn't good, so try and find a way to make things ok again, so that you can have some peace of mind.

They probably didn't mean to hurt you
Most people don't set out with the intention to hurt someone they love, so try and see things from their perspective. Accidents happen, and if you hold onto resentment over every single one, it's going to affect your own happiness.

Because they've taught you something, and that's good
If someone did something to you that is inexcusable, then perhaps you're better off. Forgive, but don't forget. Put it down as a lesson learned – perhaps they've saved you from getting hurt even worse in the future.

Because we all mess up
We all look for forgiveness at some point in life, so we should be able to return the favour when needs be. Imagine no one ever forgave anyone for the times they've messed up – we'd have hardly any friends left!

Because it shows you've moved on
If your ex cheated or did something really wrong which caused the end of your relationship, being able to forgive them tells them that you have well and truly moved on. It'll also tell them that they're not occupying all your thoughts anymore, which is almost the best kind of revenge. Not that we’d advocate revenge, but, it does feel pretty good!



The world can be a hectic place and it’s easy to lose sight of the simple ways we can let go of the stress and make our lives more Zen.

1. Forgive

Forgiveness is a golden life rule. You should forgive others if they’ve hurt you and especially forgive yourself for the mistakes you’ve made. Don’t be so hard on yourself!

2. Accept the things you can’t change

Try to accept the things that are holding you back from moving forward in life. If you really can’t change them, accept them and let them go.

3. Relate to others

It’s so easy to judge others, especially when we are feeling angry or hurt, but if you want to have more peace in life, you should learn to relate to others. Put yourself in their shoes and try not to judge.

4.  Refresh your life

It’s important to refresh your life with new goals, new dreams and new ideas once in a while. Just make sure you don’t set too many goals, as this can be overwhelming and you can’t stick to them all!

5.  Improve your relationships

We should never stop improving relationships with ourselves and other people. Make an effort to keep in touch with friends, tell your family how much they mean to you and respect college friends or colleagues. This will give you a great sense of peace.