So, if you've ever been cheated on you'll know all to well the toll it can take on your general wellbeing.
Sad, lonely, hurt and confused, you'll ask yourself if it was something you did?
Of course the answers is no, and according to a new study, even asking yourself this question could be effecting you physically as well as mentally.
Researchers from the University of Nevada, Reno, surveyed 232 third-level students who had been cheated in the last three months, with the aim of finding out how their behaviours and mental health had been affected by their partners infidelity.
Speaking to PsyPost, M. Rosie Shrout, lead author of the study, explained, “We wanted to know if this emotional and psychological distress leads them to engage in risky health behaviours, such as unprotected sex, drug use, alcohol use, binge eating, or not eating at all.”
She added, “We were also interested in whether perceptions of blame played a role in their psychological distress and risky health behaviours.”
Results found that having an unfaithful partner can significantly affect your behaviour, your view of cheating and above all, your ability to trust.
Researchers also found that those who are worse effected are more likely to turn to alcohol and drugs, or develop eating disorders.
“Being cheated on seems to not only have mental health consequences, but also increases risky behaviours,” Shrout said.
“We also found that people who blamed themselves for their partner cheating, such as feeling like it was their fault or they could have stopped it, were more likely to engage in risky behaviours.”
It seems that damaged self-esteem may lower ones inhibitions toward risky behaviours, which may ultimately lead to poor physical and mental health.
However, it's important to note that the average age of participants was 20-years-old, meaning the results may be different for older age groups.