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What do we want? AFFORDABLE BODYSAFE QUEER SEX TOYS WHICH VALUE INCLUSIVITY. When do we want it? NOW. 

*Clears throat* The time has arrived to discover the best sex toys in the business for LGBTQ+ lovers (self-love or otherwise). We accept this challenge with gusto, glitter and Pride flags.

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1. Godemiche Ambit Sparkle Silicone Dildo 

The Ambit Sparkle is 100 percent hand-poured silicone with a wide base for harness use. The luscious iridescent sparkles are the cherry on top of the dildo cake, if we do say so ourselves.

Indie silicone sex toy makers Godemiche have created the perfect medium-sized toy, suitable for the queer community. We recommend the Uprize strap-on harness for lesbian dildo play.

Buy: Sex Siopa
Price: €60

2. Uprize Adjustable Strap-On Harness

The Uprize adjustable strap-on harness has a great reputation, and for good reason. It's a great entry-level accessory for those curious about harness play but want comfort and a low budget.

The nylon straps are fully adjustable up to 63" at the waist and 35" at the leg. The harness also has a soft foam padded base and flexible silicone o-ring measuring five centimetres in diameter.

Buy: Love Honey
Price: €29.95

3. Brief harness by RodeoH

RodeoH are great for all types of harnesses; briefs, boxers and panties in all various shapes and sizes for dildos.

The brand make high quality toys and are extremely queer-inclusive. Their company mantra online reads; "We started RodeoH to disrupt the outdated and uncomfortable 'buckles and straps' harness models on the market.

"Empowered by our community, our original underwear harness line set us apart by bringing you quality, minimalist designs at radically fair prices. Our designs embody our shared passion to experiencing a closer connection with ourselves, and with each other."

Why not live life on your own terms, with your own harness sizes?

Buy: RodeoH
Price: €48.85

4. RodeoH Cosmos Beginner's Kit crotchless panty

The perfect kit for beginners. Harness play can be paired with your choice of a five inch or seven inch platinum silicone dildo, with sexy lace detailing crochless panty in a mid-rise fit.

The Crotchless Panty Harness was created with a feminine flair, and you can rest assured that you'll be comfortable and supported. You won't have to hastily remove the harness during play; it's easy access.

The kit includes your choice of dildo, stabiliser, the harness and 2oz H2O lubricant. What a steal.

Buy: RoheoH
Price: €80

5. Yes Double Glide Organic Lubricant Set

We're absolutely obsessed with Yes as a lubricant brand. The use organically grown ingredients and the lubes are ideal for use with bodysafe sex toys, masturbation and hand play.

The set includes the Yes water-based lube (100ml) and Yes plant oil-based lube (80ml), which are both certified organic, are glycerin and paraben free and small enough for carry-on luggage.

The oil-based ingredients include sweet almond oil, sunflower seed oil, shea butter, cocoa seed butter, beeswax and vitamin E. The water-based lubricant contains soothing aloe vera…we're so sold.

Buy: Sex Siopa
Price: €27

6. Fun Factory Miss Bi Rechargeable Vibrator

Fun Factory's Miss Bi vibrator has a stellar rep as a strong but quiet vibrator, generally iconic for someone who loves dual internal and external stimulation.

The clitoral and G-spot vibe is what makes this product a winner, and the ergonomic looped handle of course. It's flexible, easy to grip, 100 percent waterproof (hey, shower sex) and USB rechargeable. 

We'll take 10, please. (She'll be your new bestie)

Buy: Sex Siopa
Price: €100

7. Satisfyer Silicone Butt Plug Set

The set of three butt plugs are ideal for beginners and is 100 percent body-safe silicone. The plugs are 5.5" in length and each have a unique shape and curve to delight you with.

The Satisfyer set is a fun and affordable way for you to start to explore anal play and discover what you enjoy. Use with a good water based lubricant like Sliquid Sassy or Yes Water Based lube.

Buy: Sex Siopa/Amazon
Price: €13.28

8. Bijoux Indiscrets Vegan Cuffs

The 100 percent vegan, polyurethane leather cuffs with quick-release chain can be worn as individual bracelets. 

The Maze collection from Bijoux Indiscrets are PETA-approved, and the leather-look cuffs are perfectly adjustable.

Connected together with a chic gold chain, the cuffs feature spring-loaded clips on either side for quick connection or release. Is it high fashion or pleasurable, kinky sex? We reckon both.

Buy: Sex Siopa
Price: €45

9. Avant Trans Pride Silicone Dildo 

The Trans Pride dildo by Avant is a modern, stylish toy that's great for any and every type of play. The curved head and body make an excellent shape for both G-spot and prostate stimulation.

Featuring a suction cup base to make positioning easier and a wide enough base for a harness, the 100 percent platinum cured silicone toy is 5.25" in length and 1.4" in width. It's pretty damn glorious, and it's high time trans sexuality was celebrated.

Buy: Sex Siopa
Price: €45

10. Nexus Ace Small Extra Quiet Remote Control Vibrating Butt Plug

The Nexus Ace has a tapered tip for smooth insertion and a ribbed neck for amping sensation. Streamlined stimulation and powerful pleasure combine with this remote-operated toy. There are six functions of vibration, for you or your lover to control. Sounds fun, eh?

Buy: Love Honey
Price: €64.95

11. Rocks Off 7 Function Ass Berry Vibrating Butt Plug (2.25")

I don't know about you, but we're feelin' mighty fruity.  

This perfectly shaped sex toy has a cleverly shaped body made of IntraMed hypoallergenic material and features the legendary RO-80mm 7 function powerful bullet, so you'll be feeling the juicy pleasure in no time.

Buy: Love Honey
Price: €27.95

12. Fun Factory Duke Rechargeable Prostate Massager

The Duke by Fun Factory is their beloved vibrating prostate sex toy, with a unique shape for maximum pleasure. The toy offers a feeling of fullness, prostate stimulation, and perineum stimulation for three-fold sexual joy.

The toy is made with the same soft, flexible silicone as many of their other products, and has a removable, rechargeable bullet vibe. It's easy to clean and comes with Fun Factory's Click n' Charge magnetic charging cable as a bonus. We see why it's so popular, it's got everything…

Buy: Love Honey
Price: €64.95

13. Rianne S. Bella Rechargeable Mini Wand Vibrator

"She believed she could, so she did." Imagine getting a gold bracelet with this quote on it with a sex toy delivery? Well, dreams do come true.

The Bella by Dutch designer Rianne S is 100 percent the toy for you if you want strength from a vibrator without a really annoying wand with wires. The Bella has 10 vibration speeds, us waterproof for shower play, is made from medical grade silicone and comes with a rechargeable USB cable. 

It's sleek and compact, covered in velvety silicone from top to bottom but boy, is she strong. Don't let her size fool you.

Buy: Sex Siopa
Price: €80

14. Satisfyer MEN Self-Warming Rechargeable Penis Vibrator

The Satisfyer MEN is a great penis toy that brings both powerful vibrations and a warming function for a mind-blowing experience.

It's an elegant design, and isn't bulky like many other penis vibrators on the market. It uses a magnetic USB charging cable for travel usage and it's waterproof. Don't forget to use plenty of lubricant (Yes brand is best) and wash with warm, soapy water.

Buy: Sex Siopa
Price: €80

15. Queen Bee by Octopus Hot clitoral stimulator

The world's first clitoral stimulator designed with Hot Octopus' patented PulsePlate technology, and we have one word for you: WOW.

It’s time you felt like royalty. The Queen Bee will introduce you to a whole spectrum of orgasms, with the deep and powerful oscillations of PulsePlate tech. Thank us later, it's 100 percent worth the money.

Buy: Hot Octopus
Price: €119

16. BASICS Vibrating Twin Cock Ring

Intensely satisfying vibrations can now be directed straight to the clitoris, cock and balls for an all-compassing shared stimulation. It's a decent price too.

Buy: Love Honey
Price: €9.95

17. Satisfyer Pro 2: Next Generation

The Satisfyer Pro 2 is a legendary clitoral toy that massages the clitoris using pressure waves and tingling pulsations. Sounds good, doesn't it?

It now has a new wider and larger silicone head for a comfy touch and feel, and a quieter motor than the original as well as better battery power. You can increase and decrease your intensity level using just an oval button, and the toy has 11 settings for all levels of pleasure.

Seeing as it's also waterproof, we recommend trying it in the bath for maximum self-loving.

Buy: Satisfyer
Price: €45

Enjoy your empowered, liberated queer sex. Remember to wash your toys with warm, soapy water and that lube is your knight in shining armour when it comes to pleasure.

Stay safe and have fun, fam. We'll sign out with a kiss of encouragement from Keanu himself.

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If the Fifty Shades of Grey franchise is a fairly accurate representation of your own sex life, chances are you've sustained more than a few injuries due to the kinkiness of your antics, right?

And while no one relishes the idea of revealing everything about their sex life to their GP, a recent report in Marie Claire highlights the importance of informing your general practitioner so as to ensure you receive the best treatment should you sustain a sex-related injury.

According to a study published in the Journal of Sexual Medicine, more than 50 per cent of BDSM practitioners choose not to tell their GPs about their sex life for fear of judgement, even if this means failing to receive the proper treatment.

Highlighting the importance of transparency in such a situation, Carol Queen, sex educator and author of The Sex & Pleasure Book urges the public to speak up.

"Doctors aren't mind readers, and they're mostly very poorly trained about kinky sexual practices," she explained.

"Hearing real info from patients will help them put faces to sexual practices and help them better understand what the stakes are."

Refusing to attend a doctor after sustaining a sex-related injury leaves you vulnerable to further discomfort, with sex therapist, Anna Randall, saying: "Big bruises can develop into hematomas, for example."

"There are rare injuries from rough sex that may lead to serious complications, such as torn vaginal tissue or scrotum injuries, and because more risky sexual BDSM behaviors may include controlling the breathing of a partner, those with asthma face real risks if they're not treated for attacks immediately," she continues.

And if you do decide to seek treatment, but conceal the circumstances that led to a specific injury, you are limiting the medical professional's ability to properly treat the area. 

Addressing the reluctance exhibited by many BDSM practitioners, Anna insists that, on the whole, the fear has little grounding in reality.

"It's also important to know that people anticipate more stigma than they experience actual stigma," she says.

"There's a really good chance you're not going to get shamed and often even if doctors don't know the answers, they'll usually try to find out more."

Something to think about, right?

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